Wednesday 26 September 2012
America - November 2011
Hey guys, I'm bored so I decided that I would upload some photos on to my blog of my trip back home to Philadelphia (and New York), so this is kind of a pointless post and the photos are like close to a year old but What the heck! There was over 600 photos so maybe I could upload a few more if you guys would like that maybe another time?
Sunday 16 September 2012
How I Deal With Haters
Hey Guys,
So today I wanted to talk about something that I always get asked, 'how I deal with haters'.
I get asked this question so much, and I've never really talked about it because there isn't really that much too it!
All i usually do is delete any of the hate comments i get and block the user. I think that this is the best way to deal with the problem because if you don't block the person they are just going to keep leaving bad comments on your videos.
Also people always wonder if they ever make me upset and no, it literally goes straight over my head, if they think an anonymous comment over the internet is going to put me down they can think again haha!
People always comment on my appearance, usually saying 'you wear too much makeup' or 'your teeth are terrible', and first off, if people think i wear too makeup they must have never seen someone my age walking around the mall, i know people that wear full on black makeup and black lipsticks and winged liners (and heels) at my age and people think i wear too much makeup haha! and who are they to tell me that i'm wearing to much makeup, its my face i can decide what i thinks to much makeup for me!
And i know some people are going to say its constructive criticism, and i can deal with someone saying something in a polite way, but if someone is going to call me 'ugly' or 'stupid' then im just going to block them! Simple as :)
So the main point is that i don't ever really acknowledge the haters because it's not worth it and replying to them is only going to give them what they want and that is to get to you, and i know i sometimes reply but i usually say something like 'there is no need to tell me this' or something like this anyway i would never go and reply saying something nasty back because two wrongs don't make a right!
well anyway thats my brief opinion on the subject, i didn't cover everything but maybe i could do a video on this topic if you guys would like that?
let me know :)
thanks,
melissa
So today I wanted to talk about something that I always get asked, 'how I deal with haters'.
I get asked this question so much, and I've never really talked about it because there isn't really that much too it!
All i usually do is delete any of the hate comments i get and block the user. I think that this is the best way to deal with the problem because if you don't block the person they are just going to keep leaving bad comments on your videos.
Also people always wonder if they ever make me upset and no, it literally goes straight over my head, if they think an anonymous comment over the internet is going to put me down they can think again haha!
People always comment on my appearance, usually saying 'you wear too much makeup' or 'your teeth are terrible', and first off, if people think i wear too makeup they must have never seen someone my age walking around the mall, i know people that wear full on black makeup and black lipsticks and winged liners (and heels) at my age and people think i wear too much makeup haha! and who are they to tell me that i'm wearing to much makeup, its my face i can decide what i thinks to much makeup for me!
And i know some people are going to say its constructive criticism, and i can deal with someone saying something in a polite way, but if someone is going to call me 'ugly' or 'stupid' then im just going to block them! Simple as :)
So the main point is that i don't ever really acknowledge the haters because it's not worth it and replying to them is only going to give them what they want and that is to get to you, and i know i sometimes reply but i usually say something like 'there is no need to tell me this' or something like this anyway i would never go and reply saying something nasty back because two wrongs don't make a right!
well anyway thats my brief opinion on the subject, i didn't cover everything but maybe i could do a video on this topic if you guys would like that?
let me know :)
thanks,
melissa
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