Sunday 16 September 2012

How I Deal With Haters

Hey Guys,
So today I wanted to talk about something that I always get asked, 'how I deal with haters'. 
I get asked this question so much, and I've never really talked about it because there isn't really that much too it!
All i usually do is delete any of the hate comments i get and block the user. I think that this is the best way to deal with the problem because if you don't block the person they are just going to keep leaving bad comments on your videos.
Also people always wonder if they ever make me upset and no, it literally goes straight over my head, if they think an anonymous comment over the internet is going to put me down they can think again haha!
People always comment on my appearance, usually saying 'you wear too much makeup' or 'your teeth are terrible', and first off, if people think i wear too makeup they must have never seen someone my age walking around the mall, i know people that wear full on black makeup and black lipsticks and winged liners (and heels) at my age and people think i wear too much makeup haha! and who are they to tell me that i'm wearing to much makeup, its my face i can decide what i thinks to much makeup for me!
And i know some people are going to say its constructive criticism, and i can deal with someone saying something in a polite way, but if someone is going to call me 'ugly' or 'stupid' then im just going to block them! Simple as :)
So the main point is that i don't ever really acknowledge the haters because it's not worth it and replying to them is only going to give them what they want and that is to get to you, and i know i sometimes reply but i usually say something like 'there is no need to tell me this' or something like this anyway i would never go and reply saying something nasty back because two wrongs don't make a right! 
well anyway thats my brief opinion on the subject, i didn't cover everything but maybe i could do a video on this topic if you guys would like that?
let me know :) 
thanks,
          melissa


7 comments:

  1. You should make a video about this.(:
    btw you are beautiful how you are and you don't wear too much makeup compare too me you dont since I see some other girls wear a lot more makeup then you do and you are not stupid or ugly your beyond beautiful.(:
    by : Amber Rollins

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  2. definitely make a video on this, i think a lot of people would like to see it:) xx

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  3. awhhh i think that is amazing how you dont really care on the haters and thats good ! in my offensive i do think you wear a lot of makeup but that doesnt really bother me because you are who you are ! and i love you for that ! and dont let anybody tell you that your ugly or stoopid because you are not !!!!!! iloveyou ( like sisters ) so yeah keep going !!!!!!! defenatly make a video on this i think a lot of people would love to see it :))

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  4. video!!!

    you are soo beuttefull <3
    i looovvee you !!!
    i`m living now in germany but i am turkey is that not amazing what for fans u got ??

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  5. What load of crap. There's a 90% chance that of someone leaves a "hate" comment, you'll respond. (Hell of a lot more often than you do to anyone leaving a nice comment.) Plus you rarely delete these comments either. And if it didn't actually get to you, then you wouldn't even see it (goes over your head, ha). No reason to block it, so it obviously does get to you.

    >i know i sometimes reply but i usually say something like 'there is no need to tell me this' or something like this anyway i would never go and reply saying something nasty back

    HA! That's a joke, like you ever would say that. But then maybe you don't think being a sarcastic bitch back is nasty.
    From just one video
    -omg, its good but can you PLEASE stop doing that? thing were you get your hand and flip your hair back!, its so annoying and you do it ALL the time!
    -I'll still? do it, don't you worry ;)

    It's the only type of response you ever give. And that was a nice response. Usually you just mock the person as well.

    But then, who is anyone to judge you if you want to say something nasty back. Just follow your other philosophy "I know other people my age say meaner things and people think I'm mean!? Who are other people to judge what I SAY anyway. IT 'S MY LIFE. blah, blah, blah, pointless... dribble... blah, blah, blah, lying hypocrite. blah, blah, blah I was raised in America, that's why I don't know what the words backyard, study, or even umm means....blah, blah, blah. I know, I'll do a video on it so everyone will know how awesome I am."

    >first off, if people think i wear too makeup they must have never seen someone my age walking around the mall

    WTF does anyone else have to do with you? That's like saying, oh you think Osama killed a lot of people? Well, Hitler killed millions. Like, okay, well then that makes it okay.
    When you start getting shitfaced drunk (cuz you are Irish), are you just going to say, yeah, well look at how much everyone else drinks.

    And for all of those people you talk about that wear more than you. Guess what? No one thinks highly of them either. Saying you're less trampy than someone else is quite the credo. You must be so proud of yourself for thinking that up.
    Wouldn't it be more honest to just say you want to look like a slutty whore, instead of trying to say that someone else looks even sluttier. lol I mean, it laughable that you are using that as your excuse.

    But then, honesty isn't your strong suit.

    Now, go and delete the mean post that actually doesn't bother you.

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